just to go off on a bit of a tangent here.
Went to see My Fair Lady

catchy songs, nice show ---- can't understand how no one else has a problem with the message?
so I did some digging for reviews and found a few others that I agreed with.
snippets
Clean it up a bit, dress it in fine, beautiful clothes, practice the manners, take it to the best places, and no one will ever notice the unreconstructed gutter-snipe beneath it all. In this case, I'm not talking about Eliza Doolittle, but the unavoidably sexist and now distressingly dated "My Fair Lady". Of course it's filled with some of the best songs ever written for the Broadway stage, and the script is a model of intelligence and subtlety, but there are presumptions and attitudes beneath it all that must be balanced expertly, along with a romance that is a paradigm of conditional commitment, or the whole thing becomes cold and slightly repellent. This production made it impossible for me to overlook precisely those things which, when carefully handled, make this unlikely tale so magical. Jerry Kraft
Probably the most hideous blight upon all of modern culture is the appalling and inexcusable My Fair Lady. A thoroughly degenerate spectacle, Alan Jay Lerner's book and lyrics bid fair to drag all that is truly noble about human achievement through the sewer: My Fair Lady is a vapid, cynical affront to the civilized mind, a travesty that exalts all that is sniveling and contemptible and degrades anything even remotely worth admiring or applauding, affirming or cherishing. It is a sojourn through slime, the theatrical equivalent of a mugging. Watching it is like watching a biker gang beat a cherub to death with ballpeen hammers. (Of course it also does have a few catchy musical numbers. Conceded.) Whiskey Fire